The Heart-Mind Connection: Tune Into Your Heartbeat & Beat Self-Doubt

Lynnecia S. Eley
3 min readOct 10, 2023

--

When it comes to the matters of the heart, often romanticized as our center of emotions and desires, it holds a key to a treasure — confidence. In a world that demands we stand firm (strong), the gentle whispers of our heart can offer a grounding rhythm amidst a mountain of self-doubt. As Fall leaves twirl to the ground this October, let’s explore the heart-mind connection and how tuning into the beat of our emotions can foster a grounded sense of self-assurance, especially for women and young adults on the precipice of change.

Photo by Sweet Life on Unsplash

This journey often starts with a single heartbeat, a rhythm that resonates with our true emotions. Be it the fluttering beat before a job interview, the steady beat during a moment of quiet self-reflection, or the rapid beat of excitement — our hearts narrate the story of our emotional state.

Today, logic often overrules emotions. Acknowledging and understanding that our heart’s rhythm can be transformational is about creating a dialogue between our emotional intelligence nestled in the heart and the rational of our minds. This talk is the crust for those looking to change their mindset, be it women aiming to be more confident in the workplace, new entrepreneurs ready to carve their niche, or young ladies and teens yearning to hold their own ground in a crazy world.

Mindfulness, a simple yet profound practice, holds the door open for this connection. It’s about being present, immersing yourself in the now, and truly listening to what your heart is saying as you go about the daily hustle. As you sit quietly, focusing on your breath, you begin to notice the beat of your heart, the ebb, and flow of your emotions, and the tugs of your dreams and desires. This practice isn’t about dismissing your fears or silencing your doubts. It’s about acknowledging them, holding them, and understanding that they too have a place in your journey. Mindfulness cultivates nurturing where self-assurance can grow and flourish.

Let’s all adapt the narrative of emotional bravery. It involves wearing your heart on your sleeve, embracing your vulnerabilities, and understanding that true confidence doesn’t stem from a facade of perfection, but from a place of authentic self-acceptance. It’s about embracing the lessons that come wrapped in doubts, and still standing tall with a heart full of hope.

The dance between our hearts and minds, is a genuine form of self-assurance that’s grounded and empowering. It’s a form of confidence that isn’t loud but resonates quietly within, pushing us through the uncertainties that life often throws our way. This month, as you reflect and step into the arena of your dreams, remember, your heartbeat is not just a life-sustaining rhythm, it’s guiding you towards self-assurance.

The heart-mind connection is not poetry. It’s a reality that can be embraced on the inside and present a radiant glow of confidence on the outside. So, here’s to tuning into our heart’s rhythm and dancing to the beat of confidence.

We are only limited by the things that we allow to limit us. The keys to success and happiness are already in our pockets. We just need someone to show us the lock and encourage us to open the door. Inspiration, empowerment, and support is waiting at www.shecaninspire.com.

Busy working moms like myself can’t deny a shot of espresso and steamed milk with just a touch of foam — also known as a great latte! You can send me a virtual cup of coffee here.

If you enjoy writing articles as much as you love reading them, join our contributing writer team at Soigne’ + Swank Magazine. Visit here for details on how you can submit a story to share with our audience.

--

--

Lynnecia S. Eley
Lynnecia S. Eley

Written by Lynnecia S. Eley

Founder of She Can Inspire, Two Queens Media, Soigne' + Swank Magazine and Eta Rho Sigma Sorority, Inc., best-selling Author, wife and mother. shecaninspire.com

No responses yet