Embracing Age 43: A Confident Journey Through Womanhood

Lynnecia S. Eley
3 min readNov 28, 2023

Each year, as I approach November 30th, I find myself in deep reflection. This year, as I approach the age of 43, I find myself acknowledging the unique significance of this year. It’s an age often overlooked in the grand spectrum of milestone birthdays, yet it holds a profound depth of meaning, especially for women who are on paths toward a more confident, self-assured version of themselves.

At 43, we stand at a fascinating crossroads of experience and wisdom. It’s an age where the impulsive energy of youth begins to share beautifully with the lessons learned over four decades. This is not the age where we start to feel old; rather, it’s when we truly start to feel empowered. We’ve navigated through our twenties and thirties, periods filled with exploration, building careers and businesses, perhaps starting families, and finding our footing in the world. Now, in our early forties, we hold a clearer understanding of who we are and what we want from life.

For many women, the forties are a time of renewed confidence. It’s an era where self-doubt is primed for a backseat, replaced by a self-assurance that is grounded in real-life experiences. We’ve faced challenges, celebrated successes, and learned from our failures. This all gifts us a sense of inner strength and resilience that is less easily shaken by life’s ups and downs.

Moreover, 43 is a celebration of continued growth. It’s about recognizing that our journey of self-discovery and personal development is far from over. In fact, over 40 can be a launching pad into new adventures, fresh dreams, and unexplored opportunities. It’s a time when many women find a new voice, whether that’s in advocating for themselves, pursuing a long-held passion, or simply learning to say ‘no’ without guilt.

This age also brings a deeper appreciation for the connections we’ve built. Friendships and relationships are viewed through a lens of gratitude and depth, cherishing quality over quantity. We’ve learned the value of a support network that uplifts, understands, and empowers us.

As I embrace the age of 43, I do so with a heart full of gratitude for the years that have shaped me and an eye towards a future with bright potential. This isn’t just another birthday; it’s a testament to the journey of becoming a confident, self-assured woman. With each passing year, we not only grow older but grow more into ourselves, discovering layers of our identity that bring us closer to our core self.

To all the women stepping into or already in their forties, let’s view this time as a celebration of who we’ve become and an exciting preamble to the chapters yet unwritten. We are not just growing older; we are growing bolder, wiser, and more purposefully ourselves.

I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t create something special to share on my birthday. This 43rd year is sure to be filled with self-affirming success and gratitude. Help my kick-off Chapter 43 by joining me in daily morning affirmation. Visit my YouTube Channel and save Morning Affirmations for Confident Women 40+ | Start Your Day with Positivity to your playlist.

We are only limited by the things that we allow to limit us. The keys to success and happiness are already in our pockets. We just need someone to show us the lock and encourage us to open the door. Inspiration, empowerment, and support is waiting at www.shecaninspire.com.

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Lynnecia S. Eley

Founder of She Can Inspire, Two Queens Media, Soigne' + Swank Magazine and Eta Rho Sigma Sorority, Inc., best-selling Author, wife and mother. shecaninspire.com